Desk Report,
Why is it difficult to get out of a toxic relationship?
If a relationship becomes toxic, that is, if the normality of one’s life is destroyed due to the relationship, then it is better to get out of it. Getting out of a toxic relationship increases the opportunity to enjoy the beauty of life in a new way. However, the easier it is to advise getting out or breaking up, the harder it is to do so in reality. But why? Why can’t some people get out of a toxic relationship?
Why is it difficult to get out of a toxic relationship?
A person’s ability to make big decisions depends on how confident they are and how self-assured or independent they have grown. A person who is ‘abused’ in a toxic relationship has less ability or confidence to decide to get out of that relationship.
Becoming dependent on a toxic relationship, adapting, getting used to it, ‘falling in love’ with the toxic person, what will happen to the child – these play an important role in making decisions about relationships. Along with this, some hormones and physiological factors in their own body also play an indirect role. Many people also do not get out of a toxic relationship for economic reasons.
This is my fate, the reality of life’
A person may hesitate to take the right decision at the right time due to not being able to control his own life. For someone who is unable to express his feelings or make small decisions since childhood, it becomes quite difficult to take a big decision like separation. Some may think that breaking up is wrong or that it may be his fate, the reality of life, weakness, failure or shame. Many people maintain toxic relationships because of such thoughts. What will people say
After separation, many people are often seen facing social pressure. Relatives, neighbors, colleagues, friends – many make bitter comments or personal attacks. They plague them with various questions. Many are also afraid of this pressure. In addition, if they have children, the fear of their family or social development being hindered may also work.
